I hate my 4b hair!! what less damaging way can i straighten it?(rantish)?

well its simple, if its short , always gets frizzy in the wind and its real curly then there's only 1 thing you can do....either you can think about it and get it cut short and put it in a bomb hair style...or ...you can not think about the cut and get a hair relaxer ...try not to straighten it for a while trim your ends then see how it works with the straightener...if you put any chemicals that might be damaging to your hair also....stop...hope it works