Reilgion in marriage?

Okay, so my hubby was raised penticostal and believes without a shadow of doubt that every word in the Bible is true and meant to be taken litterally. I was raised ina divorced and remarried set of parents with one being totoally athiest and the other catholic. Neither of those outlooks coincide with the way my husband believes. We have attended churches together and I can see some point in some of it, but it is almost impossible for me to believe in Heaven. I am so afraid if I die and don't get to be were he is it will be awful. But, I know that according to the bible I can't go to heaven if I don't believe Jesus is the savior. What am I to do. I gave it my best for the first year of our marriage, but it got to be rediculous. What should I do, will we never be able to have the perfect relationship? Thanks for all answers.