How American Families Run Part 2?

Sounds to me like the guy wants a maid, not a wife! Tell him he doesn't know the slightest thing about Americans, and to get his wife a little help, and just cause he was raised to be a jerk doesn't mean that he has to be one! Sounds like you do more work than he does! I feel for you girl, but when you marry a jerk, you have to deal with him!